The Bitter Truth

  Smash The Patriarchy We have so many debates about Patriarchal society oppressing the women. As we live in patriarchal society, think for yourself, why as a man you are oppressing women. Why you are oppressing your mother, sister, daughter, wife or any other female relative. Why you believe in harassing them, disrespecting them and wish their ill-being. If your answer is no, you don’t do that, on the contrary you take extra care of female members of your family, than don’t assume you are any extra ordinary or progressive man or different from other men. Those are the values that have been embedded in you like in any other man, from our patriarchal ancestors. You are part of the society where man has always taken extra care of females. It is not only true for you but it the case with most of the man in present and in past. In fact in history man has been even more thoughtful towards woman then present man and women have always been given more privilege. If your answer is yes...

  Originally posted on 10th May 2020     This week has seen shocking degradation of morality; it is a great matter of concern especially when it is shown by our young generation, the future of our country. Let’s recap these incidents First incident:   Chat of “Bois Locker Room” became public and it revealed how minor kids are normally talking about sexually explicit comments and rape, sharing nude photos of girls, which they received from those girls itself.  Second incident:   Chat of “Girls Locker Room” became public and it revealed how minor girls are also normally doing the same conversation for boys as well as girls, talking about sexually explicit comments, body shaming girls and threatening to rape them, doing similar talks about boys.  Third incident:    A minor 17 year old boy of Gurgaon commits suicide, after a girl levied charges of molestation on him through social media.  What is more concerning is where we went wrong t...

  Originally posted on 14th April 2020           Whole world is going through crisis of Pandemic and it is difficult time for everyone. People are worrying about their jobs, economic crisis, business worrying about their future, poor worrying about daily food, Man worrying about arranging food for his family, government worrying about to contain the virus and safeguard their citizens, police trying to stop people movement for people’s own safety while risking their own lives, health workers saving the lives of people.       Everyone is contributing in their own way whether it is MAN or WOMAN.  Still there are some segments those are indulged in their own self-interest with least respect for the interest of society.    Those are the groups whose only interest is to spread MAN hatred, as their livelihood depends on that.       On April 3 rd  2020 NCW ( National commissio...

        There has already been lot of controversy on the triple talaq bill with religious sentiment to politics to right and dignity of women to constitutional validity of Triple talaq, giving least botheration to actual man or woman who is actually going to be affected by it.   How important it is to abolish Triple Talaq :         Talaq-e-biddat means husband can say Talaq Talaq Talaq to his wife at one go and within seconds they are divorced, it is also known as instant Talaq. Wife doesn’t have any right and suddenly all her rights as wife are truncated. It is not only unconstitutional but immoral and unethical to have such a practice. That is why Honorable Supreme Court itself also has abolished this practice by declaring it unconstitutional. In light of this it becomes important that government enact a law that should enable abolishment of this practice. But sometimes a small mistake can do blunders and in this case ...

       Whenever we talk about dowry, we talk about the evils that it has brought in to the society. To solve the problems it has created,  we must deep dive into it's origin and how it got en-rooted in our culture. For that we first need to see our social structure and its historical background.   Composition of family :             At the basic level we can say that a family has mother, father , sons and daughters. Then there can be joint families staying together. As a family it has ancestral house, properties, farm land, business, gold and other assets.   We have culture in our society where sons stay with the parents forever while daughters move to the house of in-laws after the marriage.   This leads to certain discriminatory situation where assets that belongs to parents and ancestors remains with the sons and he enjoys it all along his life while depriving the daughters of their equal rights in...